{"id":2967,"date":"2025-05-27T13:53:01","date_gmt":"2025-05-27T11:53:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christelwellness.com\/?p=2967"},"modified":"2025-05-27T13:53:06","modified_gmt":"2025-05-27T11:53:06","slug":"yoga-as-a-relationship-to-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christelwellness.com\/en_gb\/2025\/05\/27\/yoga-as-a-relationship-to-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Yoga as a relationship to yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-81ce5f86635f0d19bf0afc7ae59c5dfb wp-block-paragraph\">Yoga has become a household name. Once thought of as a practice of the hippies (and not in a positive way!), yoga is now a mainstream commercialised practice to \u2018get fit\u2019 - though\u00a0 that\u2019s not really what it\u2019s about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-082307b33056cd0520d9fce203c3e806 wp-block-paragraph\">If we look to teachings found in the Hathayogapradapika (one of the last remaining texts of Hatha Yoga) then yes, the physical asana (postural) practice was there to cleanse the body of impurities forcefully and with great discipline and effort. But the goal of this 15th century manual is not about the external being, but reaching a state of Samadhi, or bliss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-714ac5f5fe9f943e0dadaf41887450e0 wp-block-paragraph\">Throughout my own yoga teaching and practice, I absolutely love to challenge the body and, in turn, the mind. I teach a dynamic Vinyasa class building up the heat (tapas) in the body as I personally love to sweat, to feel that I have had a physical, bodily burn and my classes reflect this. However, I also emphasise and\u00a0express through words more to my students than just physical postures, and I do my best to teach yoga off the mat and into the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-093e56ba3d9d7e91139f13356200ada8 wp-block-paragraph\">The word \u2018yoga\u2019 is the root word for the English word \u2018yoke\u2019, to bind or join, which is the most contemporary meaning. Yoga has many more meanings - but what are we joining ? Some say it is the breath with the body movements, the joining of the lower mind with the higher mind. But for today I want to share the idea that yoga is the joining of yourself to your true Self as you create a relationship to truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d98f57e5d28d5f7d1f0337f165be5e38 wp-block-paragraph\">\"Yoga teaches us to bind each moment with intimacy and truth.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-58c6bcfda22c5d7d3fc181f16f47cefc wp-block-paragraph\">I started my journey into the world of yoga at 30 as I was looking for ways to improve my fitness and wellbeing.  Yoga proved to be so much more: it reduces my back pain like nothing else had managed before, it also made me feel good about myself at a very hard time in my life.   It wasn\u2019t until a good ten years of dabbling in the practice that one day it clicked. One day, in the midst of battling depression and a list of \u2018dis-ease\u2019 in my being, I suddenly had this intimacy with myself, exactly where I was in the moment. Not through a reflection in the mirror, or through the inner critique or through the eyes of the expecting human, but an intimacy of how I was feeling in that exact moment from the truth of where I was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-ddd9c8a97e3f67bbeedaa5dfdf654f4c wp-block-paragraph\">A feeling from the inside out, not the outside in. I knew this practice was something much deeper than a physical practice at this point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-16bc9173ab6017c0f97c6f2fd2816a25 wp-block-paragraph\">Through the process of Viveka (discernment) we are able to dissolve the illusions of the mind that keep us locked in a state of Dukha (suffering). We are taught so many things about what we \u2018should\u2019 look like, how we \u2018should\u2019 feel and what kind of life we \u2018should\u2019 be living. But all of this is a social conditioning and a labelling of ideas that have been placed upon us and then we have chosen to believe as truth. As we arrive on our mat and move through our physical practice, we can start to notice our habits, from a place of Svadhyaha (self-study) without judgement or labels, just intimately meeting the moment as it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c912738e656582a11dedbe9e21bd7de3 wp-block-paragraph\">From this open explorative mindset we can connect into the truth of where we are in that moment. If we fall in a balancing pose, we can learn to fall with love and acceptance; when we see that perhaps our mind is grasping for a different result, it's not a failure to \u2018notice\u2019 this or to see that perhaps you find yourself judging the outcome, but it\u2019s how you choose to react that is important. This is the relationship. If we choose to critique or get angry or whatever it is that arises for you, let it come in the shape it needs to form, but then reflect on how this is a reaction that you will form in your day life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-0358411d443e11b0ac0862e49b0f264e wp-block-paragraph\">Falling in a balancing pose can reflect falling outside the mat, not in the sense that you fell over, but not achieving the goal you had pre-set in your mind. I know, for me, there was no such flexibility in my life to fall, and this created so much suffering for myself. The expectations I had on myself created an unachievable grasping that would leave me suffocating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-49c06a35c068f1aed36e4dd26854a047 wp-block-paragraph\">Through constant practice of letting go and changing this mindset I have been able to first of all laugh when I fall in a balancing pose, find a lighter outcome, notice that a moment is a moment and that I need to fall so that I can learn how to do things right in the next moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-27b96c95946b5f9e12de50a5b456e2d8 wp-block-paragraph\">I created a loving relationship with whom I am on the inside on a daily basis not with whom I think I should be from the eyes of the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-e212c25b519b201ffe5246797fb5daa3 wp-block-paragraph\">By meeting each moment with a pure mind, I have created space, love and freedom. It is a continued practice and it will be I\u2019m sure for the rest of my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-91ce742c27b40706824ed5033c716941 wp-block-paragraph\">Yoga is more than creating a desirable or flexible body, it is creating a relationship with all beings, starting with the relationship to yourself as you intimately approach each moment as it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-823fe7fcbd0f4165bf31f1282263ae43 wp-block-paragraph\">I hope this article helps you realise the connexion with yourself, the only one that matters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-ab0dde36016d122857870af1838eb8f4 wp-block-paragraph\">Namaste<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d32320360033f2374bc631817aad18e8 wp-block-paragraph\">Christel \ud83d\ude4f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yoga has become a household name. 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